Tuesday, March 15, 2005

From Man's Qualification to Leader's Qualification

I have just come across this article about how women weight a man for their ideal partners. After reading it, I found there are close similarities of this list of qualification to the qualification of a leader. I would place a comment at the end of each item of qualification listed in the article. Let me know what you think. This will be an easier and more understandable way to help people to electing a leader.
~~~ BigEagle ~~~

新好男人 10大條件

[聯合新聞網 2005/3/15, 特約記者 吳佩樺/專題報導]

男人看女人,不只要有天使的臉孔、魔鬼的身材,還要有一顆溫柔體貼的心;女人看男人也越來越嚴格,不僅外表俊俏,買的起車和房子是基本條件,還要肯穿起圍裙燒得一手好菜。什麼是現代好男人必備的十大條件:

1.會做菜和家事:會做菜是現代好男人的先決條件,女人可以驕傲地跟朋友說:「我老公很體貼會做菜給我吃喔!」
A leader should be familiar with the operation and function of the organization.


2.肯照顧小孩:好男人總是做的比說的多,當小孩撒尿或大便時,好男人不會嫌他臭,會二話不說去幫小孩換尿布。
A leader should take care of those ethnic minority and those physical and intellectural disabilities.


3.3 高:好男人不僅身高要高、學歷要高還要職位高,不過外表這回事是見仁見智,而且是屬於未滿30歲女人的好男人條件。
A leader should have high standard for achievement, a long range plan for the organization, and high moral standard.


4.羅曼蒂克:好男人絕對不會忘記妳的生日及週年紀念日,甚至還會偶而來個驚喜,讓妳感動落淚。
A leader should always keep close touch with people of the organization.


5.專情:好男人只愛妳一個,什麼林志玲、侯佩岑等超級美女在他眼裡,還是家花最美,就算是真的,也要懂得在妳面前說:「在我心中沒人可以取代你。」
A leader should devote all his/her effort to the organization.


6.老實穩重:好男人就算不會說甜言蜜語,也沒關係,只要有一個可靠的肩膀讓女人依靠。
A leader should keep his/her promises and be honest and trustworhty.


7.孝順父母:好男人不只孝順自己的父母,也孝順妳的父母,他可能會嫌自己的父母囉唆,但絕不會說妳父母壞話。
A leader should respect those precedential decisions of the organization.

8.脾氣好:不管是妳對或他對,好男人總是第一個說「對不起!」;當女人歇斯底里,他也總是能不理會。Rmk by Big Bird : I don't know what is "當女人歇斯底里"
A leader should be calm and never over-react to reactions or suggestions.

9.忠實的聽眾:永遠在妳不開心的時候,好男人會靜靜在妳身邊聽妳吐露委屈,永遠在妳說笑話的時候,他會懂得要笑。
A leader should be open-minded and be trustworthy.


10.幽默風趣:好男人不用是一本笑話大全,但不知道為什麼好男人就是有本事在妳無聊或不開心的時候,讓妳笑。
A leader should be aware of any tension and know to resolve it effectively for the harmony in the organization.


~~ Those Comments in English are provided by Big Eagle ~~

1 comment:

Big Eagle said...

This is another good lesson for being a good leader. This is a lesson taken from Mr. Jack Welch, CEO of GE. In his recent book "Winning", he said "Think of yourself as a gardener, a watering can in one hand and fertilizer in the other." Here are the rules Mr. Welch listed in the book:

(1) Leaders relentlessly upgrade their team using every encounter as an opportunity to evaluate, coach and build self-confidence.

(2) Leaders make sure people not only see the vision, they live and breathe it.

(3) Leaders get into everyone's skin, exuding positive energy and optimism.

(4) Leaders establish trust with candor, transparency, and credit.

(5) Leaders have the courage to make unpopular decisions and gut calls.

(6) Leaders probe and push with a curiosity that borders on skepticism, making sure their questions are answered with action.

(7) Leaders inspire risk taking and learning by setting the example.

(8) Leaders celebrate.

"Leaders are both born and made."